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Mars and Venus: Marriage, Love and Mercy September 4, 2007

Posted by shadows15 in Gems and Jewels, Personality Development.

Shaykh Riad Ouarzazi

20 Points to Love

· Exchanging gifts, (It develops love between you two) it does not have to be materialistic.

· Spend time together. Just you and your wife.

· “The look of love”. Just by looking at your wife you should know what she likes.

· Warm greetings.

· Praise the wife. Never compare her with someone else. Applies both ways

· Participate together in the household chorus. Your work is not only outside!!

· Kind words, they are Sadaqah.

· Spend time OUT together.

· Peaceful gatherings.

· Husband has to be balanced with the YES/NO.

· Show your interest, support, and care.

· Change your routine. Surprise her/him.

· Pamper her/him.

· Don’t hide your feelings. You should be able to talk to each other (Never in front of the children).

· Call her/him by her/him beautiful names

· Don’t talk about your problems before bed.

· Show THANKS…Jazakallahu Khair

· Apologize

· R-E-S-P-E-C-T

· Contemplate the Seerah.

The video is really good and it can be found here:





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