Mars and Venus: Marriage, Love and Mercy September 4, 2007Posted by shadows15 in Gems and Jewels, Personality Development.
Shaykh Riad Ouarzazi
20 Points to Love
· Exchanging gifts, (It develops love between you two) it does not have to be materialistic.
· Spend time together. Just you and your wife.
· “The look of love”. Just by looking at your wife you should know what she likes.
· Warm greetings.
· Praise the wife. Never compare her with someone else. Applies both ways
· Participate together in the household chorus. Your work is not only outside!!
· Kind words, they are Sadaqah.
· Spend time OUT together.
· Peaceful gatherings.
· Husband has to be balanced with the YES/NO.
· Show your interest, support, and care.
· Change your routine. Surprise her/him.
· Pamper her/him.
· Don’t hide your feelings. You should be able to talk to each other (Never in front of the children).
· Call her/him by her/him beautiful names
· Don’t talk about your problems before bed.
· Show THANKS…Jazakallahu Khair
· Contemplate the Seerah.
The video is really good and it can be found here: